Power is an illusion. Whoever it owns, it is
quite possible for him/her getting misused of it. Since ancient time man had
power and domination over woman, he misused it. Today woman empowerment has
made woman to be fearless and protected by laws as well as by social
institutions and feminists. In recent time I have heard so many stories of
empowered woman who is misusing of laws and blackmailing a man. So this is
powers game. Only balanced mind can make best use of power.
Here I am not talking about which gender is superior or inferior or who
should be above or below. Males and females are complement to each other. They
are two different species who share responsibility towards each other and
society. If we consider this
world as a plant then all female are the roots and all male are seeds of the
plant, both are different but important.Equality is not important
but importance of both should be realised. Men should do their part
and women theirs.
I know that since ancient times some males have done brutality to
females in terms of the dowry system, discrimination, and much more. Well
today, females (not all) are doing brutality to males in terms of blackmailing,
misuses of law, and undue advantage of privileges; not only this, they are
playing the woman card. Why are both crossing their respective fields? Both
know that racing against each other will kill attraction as well as respect for
each other.
Many persons – males and females – are fulfilling their responsibility;
they do not dominate their partner. They are still living happily.
I agree many people don’t try to understand other person and impose over
them their philosophy forcefully. We must understand that every person has some
drawbacks where he/she cannot adjust, especially on these points other person
should adjust. This is vice and versa rule for both.
Man and woman should be complement and supplement each other and be a
whole for none of them can live in harmony without the other.
Men should not dominate
women and women should not dominate men. But still percentage is high for
male-dominating societies/families and it has been there from ages. I just want
to say that up to some extent men are habitual of it, or it is their inherent
quality, or they deserve it according to their virtue.
Actually man does not have
ability to change his dominating nature easily. Provided a woman treat him
differently then he will respond softly. Now a days some women who are not
dependent on him or empowered by law, they have started dominating a man. Due
to that man is not in a comfortable situation from inside. He is no more
attracted toward that woman today.
I have seen many women are willingly working
out as well at home too. There is something (freedom and friends) which makes
her happy with the load of double work.
Why should women be pestered into choosing to work out over having
babies and being happy?
Why are feminists lying to women that they can
look however they want –She is entering into men’s field so that she is free to
get so many male attentions, today working lady feels she has so many friends
to make jealous her husband any time. A lady working out with an excuse of
financial support to family is justified in some cases but otherwise it is just
a myth.
After getting married, many couples start
feeling bored and uninterested in each other’s bodies within a short span of
time and it is just like if you start eating the same type of food every day.
Then eventually you’ll get bored and you’ll want change. After getting bored
some women don’t hesitate to blame her man for not caring her feeling and
praises another man “how caring he is”.
It’s
just like a man purchases clothes of various types and various colors to have
a different taste at different times. It indicates any small disputes will lead
to clash of ego and ultimately women have no options but to use her empowerment
as a tool against men.
Modern females are fed up and apologetic having
to be called her as passive and caring, she wants now to be looked with all bad
male traits such as aggressive and tyranny. She wants to drink wine, she wants
to rape, she wants to beat a man, she wants to murder, and she is feeling good
in adopting manhood. It is a “dog eat dog world”
Fewer females will take this risk to change a male or
to rule over a man. Or they will like to dominate a male at this cost.I think domination by any
gender is not appreciated, it should be avoided.
There
should be equality. This is something women themselves have to fight for. But we find
contradiction in our society on this issue. I see one side a woman expect
protection and reservation on the other hand she talks about equality…?
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