Divorce Pain

Dev and Riya had been wonderfully married for 3 years with a 2 year old baby. Riya had never imagined that sexual ignorance in such a close relationships could have a strong bearing on emotional setback leading into a divorce.

Though she always felt that it was a very fulfilling and she cared for everything to maintain the relationship, yet she felt something mysterious in Dev’s nature, but untold until she found the truth of his sexual relationships with a female at his office. “Why did you do that? Why did not you share if you were not feeling fulfilled with me?”

That is where Riya went wrong in understanding a man….No one bothered to tell me exactly how one "lets go" or "moves on" when suffering debilitating emotional pain. You will be in such a situation neither you can forgive the faults of your spouse nor you can take responsibility for your part in the breakdown of the marriage.

Men don’t express their dissatisfaction in a majority of cases and rather indulge with other women to explore the unmet need of sex. It was near to impossible for Riya to accept another women in her life; therefore, they broke up after a long chaos and tension.

“Why did you do that?” The question put before Dev stands for all men …. Though it was a very strong relationship emotionally. But, we need to understand that sexual dissatisfaction due to vaginal dryness problem has a strong impact on emotional aspect.

It may sound stressful for women but protecting an emotional bonding demands some sexual interventions are required by women to bind the man.

Regardless of whether you are the one who wanted a divorce or, the one who was left behind, there is emotional pain.